Is It REALLY That Hard???
What do those words really mean anyway?
Trust: Reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence. Also confident expectation of something; hope.
Honesty: The quality or state of being honest; probity; fairness and straightforwardness of conduct, speech, etc.; integrity; sincerity; truthfulness; freedom from fraud or guile.
Why is it so hard for people to grasp these two things? They would like to be treated with this respect, why is it so hard for them to treat others the same way? I just don’t get it.
There is one particular person in my life who is very important to me and to see her with such heartache after being lied to and drug around for months on end, it just doesn’t fly well with me. If only I could get my hands on the asshole, whom when confronted with his behavior, chooses to ignore then in the end blames the other person and tells them that they CHOSE to feel this way and he can’t help that. Sick. This ass will do and say anything to take the blame away from himself.
“I want you, but I need to be alone and can’t be in a relationship with you, however I also can’t let you go…will you wait for me? All the while, I’m just not sure if and when we will ever be together again. It’s not you, it’s me. I promise you there is no one else, however…”
I CALL BULLSHIT!
Frankly, that picks my ass.
I wish I were able to take this pain away from her so she doesn’t have to deal with it anymore. HE deserves to carry all this heartache he’s caused her, but I’m afraid he just doesn’t care.
In my personal opinion, I think it’s time she cut her ties with the asshole. She is worth way more and he doesn’t deserve to have her in his life. He has broken too many hearts, he has lied too many lies and he will just continue to drag her around his self-centered life, ONLY using her when convenient for him. When she will need him, he will be nowhere to be found.
He’s a coward. He’s a manipulator. He’s a dick.