Is It REALLY That Hard???

Trust.  Honesty.

What do those words really mean anyway?

Trust: Reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence.  Also confident expectation of something; hope.

Honesty: The quality or state of being honest; probity; fairness and straightforwardness of conduct, speech, etc.; integrity; sincerity; truthfulness; freedom from fraud or guile.

Why is it so hard for people to grasp these two things?  They would like to be treated with this respect, why is it so hard for them to treat others the same way?  I just don’t get it.

There is one particular person in my life who is very important to me and to see her with such heartache after being lied to and drug around for months on end, it just doesn’t fly well with me.  If only I could get my hands on the asshole, whom when confronted with his behavior, chooses to ignore then in the end blames the other person and tells them that they CHOSE to feel this way and he can’t help that.  Sick.  This ass will do and say anything to take the blame away from himself.  

“I want you, but I need to be alone and can’t be in a relationship with you, however I also can’t let you go…will you wait for me? All the while, I’m just not sure if and when we will ever be together again.  It’s not you, it’s me.  I promise you there is no one else, however…”

I CALL BULLSHIT!

Frankly, that picks my ass.

I wish I were able to take this pain away from her so she doesn’t have to deal with it anymore.  HE deserves to carry all this heartache he’s caused her, but I’m afraid he just doesn’t care.

In my personal opinion, I think it’s time she cut her ties with the asshole.  She is worth way more and he doesn’t deserve to have her in his life.  He has broken too many hearts, he has lied too many lies and he will just continue to drag her around his self-centered life, ONLY using her when convenient for him.  When she will need him, he will be nowhere to be found.

He’s a coward.  He’s a manipulator.  He’s a dick.

 

Meme - This & That

I was tagged by Eiain!

1) What was I doing 10 yrs ago?

*EDIT*  Thinking about where I’d be 10 years from then, being now.  Turns out I am NOT a rocket scientist or belly dancer and I never broke the Guinness Book of World Records for the Most Vivid Imagination.  Damn!  However, I have developed a few more relationships with the voices in my head, so I guess that’s a bonus, right? 

2) What are 5 things on my to-do list for today:

1. Tidy up around the house
2. Play with the kids
3. Take some pics
4. Catch up on blogs
5. Read The Hobbit (again…I’m with Eiain as I just pulled it off the shelf 2 days ago!)

3) 5 snacks I enjoy:

1. Jell-O
2. Pretzels & salsa
3. Popcorn
4. Fruit
5. Anything spicy

4) 5 things I would do if I were a billionaire:

1. Buy all the camera equipment I want
2. Pay off debts
3. Build my acreage
4. Have a HUGE craft room with unlimited supplies!!!
5. Donate to my fave charities

5) 5 of my bad habits:

1. I’m too nice to people I shouldn’t be nice to
2. I procrastinate
3. I’m anal and OCD over the weirdest things 
4. Fidget
5. I start things I can’t finish…whoops!

6) 5 places I have lived:

1. Edmonton (I’m boring)
2. My parents house
3. My apartment
4. My “now” house
5. Hopefully my acreage (within the next few years)

7) 5 jobs I have had:

1. Fast Food
2. Retail
3. Waitress
4. Child Care Giver
5. Research & Data

 2 peeps I wanna know more about:

Hules

Romach

And whoever else would like to join in on the fun!

 

Shhhhhhh……

Here I sit getting my stuff together for my “meeting” of sorts at what better place than a coffee shop.  I am meeting with a secret person to talk about secret things that no one can know but us.  Is that being sneaky?

HELL YA!

But for good reason.  You see, this kind of work can’t be taken lightly and on some days it’s even time sensitive.  So all I can tell you is this…

I’M A SECRET AGENT MAN AND I GET TO WEAR I CAPE!

Certifiably Insane

It’s official folks and I have a license to prove it too! 

I was going through an old purse and I came across a card I bought years ago from a store called San Francisco, which sold a bunch of relatively cheaply made odds and ends.  It was a fun place for gag gifts and stuff, as well as these cards.

On the front of the card it says Certifiably Insane Official License.  On the back it reads:

Bearer of the Certifiably Insane License is hereby granted all privileges to act neurotic, psychotic or just a little bit nuts.  Personality characteristics vary from paranoia to hypersensitivity to extreme irritability.  You can, however, expect this person to act consistently strange.  Any abnormal behavior is quite normal for the Certifiably Insane.  In other words, you’re dealing with one strange human being.

Then at the very bottom it leaves a place for the Nutcase’s Signature.

Gotta love being silly!

Whoops!

Well look at me, abandoning ship!  Sorry, I should have a post up and running tomorrow (or later today depending on where you live or in my case, if you’ve slept yet!).  I changed the header for a little something new to look at, seeing as it’s supposed to be spring right now.  However, Old Man Winter is having an attitude as of late.  So we will let him PMS in peace and do something else.

I’ll leave you with a little something I took yesterday.